When situation arises where we have to choose "Lesson of God" and "Your life" then what would you choose ??
Here if i say the real fact then latter must be choosen because it gives you what you want.
Former option will give you pain,stress and failure as it kills your emotion to enjoy freely.
If you don't want any one to guide and want to live the life freely, opt for the latter one
Otherwise go for the former one as it will give you everything once you die.