The problem is that religious nuts around the world have exported everything beautiful about a human being to the other world.
If you talk of love, they speak of divine love.
If you talk of bliss, they speak of divine bliss.
If you speak of peace, they speak of divine peace.
We have forgotten that these are all human qualities. A human being is fully capable of joy l, of love, of peace.
Why do you want to export these to heaven?