While we are getting hurt, Everything around us start getting worst..we are just not ourself..we are lost in some other world.. some nostalgic feelings..which are irreplaceable ..we can't find the words to describe what a mess we are having in our mind..we always remember the good time we had with the people we loved..but now their presence is in the only words..and we think there memories are enough for us..but we forget one thing you know what is it? They hurt us that much that we transform to the one who we are not...they give us horrible Dreams which doesn't let us sleep.. every single day we want them to be there be with us..and those feelings..the kind of pain you find it beautiful...sigh don't know what to say to you but you know what..you have to moved up from the place where you are stuck for years.. because only you only stand there..your other fellow walked away.. doesn't think about you in the hardly a day..you just remember their good side..you forget how they steal your smile..you were the one..who awake all night.. begging to god to make things alright..and they were doing nothing about you..you only remember Their sugar coated words.. Remember how they hurt you through the worst...now you make yourself alone..but is it enough to fight for the life strom.. fight,face ,dont run over the past..it doesn't decides your life at last...
Attachment let the heart come closer..the world seems to be so incomplete without the one you are attached too.. attachment is the key to expectations ..its the part of love..it feels wonderful when two souls attached to eachother..and there is no doubt that is the blissful feeling in our life..
But time can change people... the ones you are attached too.. doesn't feel same attachment towards you now.. they start avoiding you .... if you don't text or call them they don't even make an effort to talk to you .. and that's ok maybe their attachment last like seasons.. which changes with the time..and you can't force someone to feel the same attachment towards you.. but yeah you feel disappointed.. as they said to you " they never gonna leave you" "There feelings will remain same" "They will always stand by your side" But words are only words unless you mean it.. So Due to disappointment you forgive themselves.. even though they didn't apologize you.. but all you can do is to forget themselves completely and detach yourself from them...
And I'm not gonna lie to you it's really hard to detaching yourself from someone you are attached to.. and its gonna be so tough for you.. ✨ like you have to maintain the distance from the people you love to talk.. ✨ You have to stop explaining the things which doesn't affect them.. ✨ Stop telling everything you want to share with them because they don't want to listen to you.. ✨ Your inner peace matter the most.. you have to get that in mind..
Detachment doesn't mean you don't have feelings for that person.. it just mean your feelings, your emotions doesn't have impact on them so you decided to maintaining your distance and detaching from them...
During the process of detachment there will be lots questions of self doubt like: ⚡ why this happened to me? ⚡ do I deserve it? ⚡ maybe I am unlucky ? ⚡Maybe I'm ugly? ⚡Maybe its all my fault.. But you know what if they decided to leave you..if they decided not to be with you..if they appreciate your presence ,your love ,your care,your loyalty...how could this can be your fault...?
Its Not about blaming you or anyone.. but to know the fact.. that things aren't the same anymore.. and you have to keep moving forward from the situation and from the people...
Detachment is all about finding yourself in this world.. where people are busy finding each other instead of finding oneself..
There is law of detachment ALLOW OTHERS TO BE WHO THEY ARE ALLOW YOURSELF TO BE WHO YOU ARE Don't force situation solution will emerge..
When you stop forcing the things you can't control. . when you stop asking people why they aren't making any efforts.. When you stop pleasing or begging people to love you or care for you.. When you letting go the thoughts that make you suffer.. When you don't be the prisoner of the things you can't change...
I realised one thing which hit differently.. that some people whom we think will stay by our side forever aren't meant to be with us forever..and thats completely okay..you know why because things never meant to be in that way we planned.. it meant to happen in the way god decides..and we always questioned in his plan ..why this happened to me ? Am I not worth it? Why i always been unlucky in Everything in my life? ..and we start going against the plan which is meant for us..we start pleasing people to stay in our life..we start begging them to love us ..to care for us..in the way we do for them.. im talking both about friendship or relationship.. We start forcing the things.. and what we think is that we make them stay forever by putting efforts or pleasing them..but is it worth it ? Ofcourse not.. everything which is being forced end up hurting ourselves... But on the other hand we think that life will be completely impossible without them.. because they give us the precious time that importance which no-one ever gave...so we start searching for the love the care which they used to give us.. We feel down still we put every effort to make them happy and in that way we think that everything gonna be okay...but let me ask you simple question..does your internal self allow you to do that? No right.. because you know deep inside your hurt that isn't worth your time your efforts..and inner self knows that you deserve much more better than this.. So the point is really cleared instead of forcing things start letting them go.. because if god remove something from your life it having beautiful purpose in your life.. because something more beautiful is yet to come.. But if you keep holding on the things Keep pleasing those who don't want to stay..you are just losing your self worth..and doubting on the plans of the god...
Sometimes things aren't in the way we want them to.. because it meant to be in a way much better way than we imagine...
We try to explain people what we feel ,what makes us angry sad or happy but in this phase of explaining others we forget one thing...do they really want to listen us up? Are they really want to know what we are up to..? Or all these efforts are one sided..and everything which are one sided will end up breaking the one who are doing more than that particular person deserves..they put that much efforts that they even forget themselves..not because they don't value themselves..or they don't respect themselves.. because that specific person happiness is all that matters in the end..they ignore their intuitions.. but what happen one day they decided to walk away...walk away from those things which letting them down everytime.. every second of their life... without any explanation they just went away...✨✨
And the person who always wanted them to leave start missing their presence..why? Because they are the only one Who cares for them Who love them unconditionally Who listen them up...
But the way is too late in the realisation..he/she walk away from Their life .. And what left in their life is regret...
Moral of the story "never ignores the efforts of someone..who do everything to make you happy or postive because one day you realise they are the one specific person whom you need in your life.. but they went away from your life"...✨✨✨✨
Hi guys I am here to expose fake profiles here.Don't worry I am real, I have come here when my friend said me about fake people, So I will just expose fake things. Today I am exposing one but big profile who is playing with feelings of many people and they thinks he is innocent or cute child. @cherrrry Someone exposed this before but she didn't have much proofs and he said he will file a case so everyone got frightened or believed him but this time I have it. These pics says it all.
First of all he is neil, priyanshu, chocolate boy whatever same guy he played with many girls last time. And he is doing it now again. He said he met neil in Mumbai but he lives in Indore, It can be coincidence right really? No way he never said about him. He said it after he got exposed then suddenly he deleted his all old posts so no one can find any other clue. If he was not afraid, he wouldn't have done that. And recent incident everyone knows about his and sakshi relation right, , he said he will love till end and blah blah blah but within 1 months after she left due to medical issues , he tried on else as you can read in pics and you can see how innocently he saying reject me properly to else. So, he doesn't look like he is convincing her for relation. And how much faster he is deleting messages, So no one else can read them. Don't worry I have more proofs or you wanna do case I am here bro, you can do it
And those who trust him as his sister, love, gf, or anything else you might be talking to him on Instagram right? Then just ask to video call, no talking just for a minute to prove his so called innocence. He will say there are roommates blah blah blah. But one minute is enough when he has daring to keep so many girls as gf!
If anyone still want to trust him they can do it and let him play with your feelings.
IMPORTANT NOTE: And dear girls being a boy I'm saying you frankly that nowadays boys just randomly talk to girls and do these kinda time pass. Don't think it's love! It's there beautiful masks you are seeing. And being a girl how can you give your number and social accounts to unknown person? The main mistake is yours. How can you trust someone so easily? How can you know what kinda person is talking to you? It's easy to become a victim/ prey of these ruthless people. But just think of your pain for once! So please don't trust and make bf here. Request from core of my heart. Do all these stuff outside social sites because you get easily cheated.
Wait till next who will get expose don't know.
Please mention maximum people and repost it so others are not cheated.
If you are not still convinced just ask him to video call because he might be talking to you on Instagram. Just use your brain for a moment.
Just report and block this ID: @cherrrry His previous accounts deactivated long ago: Epigrammatist Chocolate boy Neil/ Nkumar Priyanshu__ Prithvii
User deactivated his account. He will come from another IDs. So stay alert. Switch on your intelligence for sometime.
And please don't trust dramatic stories for God's sake. Getting emotional is the key to cheat easily and those who faced this mental torture from him I wish you all more strength
And if he comes from any other account or you have doubt then lemme know. And also if he tries to defend you just share a word. Your brother is here.
Yours, Anonymous well wisher.(Familiarly unfamiliar friend)
Check my other post to spread little awareness. Thanking you all for your needful actions.