Being a girl have its own complications and advantages. Being a girl isn't easy and neither that hard too. On the other side, being a boy also have its own way of dealings and restrictions and even their hard lives can not be matched with a life of a lady. Now why am I saying all this? All these facts are known to us, right? Today I'm no where comparing a girl or a boy. Today my thoughts are for a person who is mixture of both. Yes, TRANSGENDERS.
I always wondered how a transgender survive! They are exceptionally soo much courageous to accept their identity, who may be a girl hidden in male body or a boy hidden in female body. Now they don't undergo all girly or boyish type of similar problems. They have to experience, a complicated fusion of both gender issues.
We always compliant about our life being a hell! Now think about the other side! If our life is hard, then what is their life? A joke? I'm not criticising at all, it's just, my type of speaking! Now,let's take a super close look of what I'm talking over here. These are few ,okay...just a pinch of issues which they undergo. Please notice it!
1. Transgender people and particularly transgender women of color are frequent victims of violence.
2.Transgender people often lack access to basic, comprehensive healthcare. Many medical providers do not provide sex-specific care for transgender patients, or outright deny all care to people who disclose their gender identity.
3. A patchwork of state and local laws make it difficult for transgender people to update drivers licenses, birth certificates and other identification records with accurate name and gender markers. The inability to update these records makes it difficult for transgender people to secure bank accounts, attend school, or get a job and make people vulnerable to discrimination and violence in everyday life.
4.Anti-transgender bias often plays a subtle role in recruiting, hiring, training, and promoting transgender
employees. Transgender people experience twice the rate of unemployment as the general population. Transgender
people often have trouble even getting minimum wage, entry level jobs, and are forced into criminalized activities.
Hearing alll this, and just, you know just imaging ourselves in their shoes, gives me goosebumps! Could you imagine a life like that? And THEY ARE LIVING IT!!
I don't know why, I mean, really, why can't we accept them as one of us, they are also humans, they also have to eat, drink, sleep and earn like a normal human? What?? Literally what??makes them different from us? Just their gender? Come on, they are not aliens. They are just beautiful hearted people, who know the worth of living.
Huh...I don't know what the hell like logic is it?? I mean... People who are soo similar to us are differentiated and people who act like Gyani Babas are given immense importance to rape and do illegal activities? Now tell me, who should be differentiated and who should be loved?
There is a gender in our brain and a gender in our body. For 99 percent of people those are in an alignment. For transgender people, they're mismatched. That's all it is. Its not complicated, it's not a neurosis, it's a mix up. It's a birth defect, like a cleft palate.
My thoughts are just mere words written in the honour of these super humans , whom we neglect as a foe.
To all such people out there, you will definitely have a day, where we all be praising you, for your wonderful existence. And my words are the first step towards it.