Wir denken immer wir erhalten Glück von anderen,von Dingen,die um uns herum geschehen,aber das ist nur teilweise wahr. Es gibt nur eine Sache,die du tun müssen „finde das wahre du in dir. Ich gebe zu,es ist eine harte Lebensreise mit viel Mühe,aber am Ende Werden du das Gefühl heben, dass ein Gewicht von Ihnen genommen wird.Es ist schwer,aber du wrist es wissen,wie es sich anfühlt,wenn du erreichen. •~•~•~•~•~•~•~•~•~•~•~•~•~•~•~•~•~•~•~•~•~•~•~ Translation *************** We always think we receive happiness from others,from things happening around us but that's only partially true.Real happiness lies within ourselves.There is only one thing you need to do which is“Find the real you in yourself". I admit it's a hard journey of life with a whole lot of effort but in the end you will feel like a weight is lifted from you.
I have seen many people, who stop because , of their imperfections, of seeing hues of failure in their life , of people counting mistakes of their destiny, of self's emotional crises .
Now let's correct the above lines:-)
1) of their imperfections √ well, here I would really like to say -" really?". Those imperfections which you made now is literally a phase of your step towards perfection . //Proof : the word (imperfection) says-: I - am (m)- perfection//
2) of seeing hues of failure in life √ you know life is a series of unfortunate, embarrassing, proud, happy, laughing.......events . Now if you'll complain about your own series than it will affect series' TRP rate . //Proof : not every color is permanent you have the power to dilute it or make it more glossier//
3) of people counting mistakes of their destiny √ this thing is quite genuine but your thinking that - ' what people will think ?' is totally wrong because when you'll only think that what people are going to think , then WHAT PEOPLE WILL THINK?. It's never good to predict the future. //Proof : while buying a pencil you were the only one who choose the pencil having good quality//
4) of self's emotional crises √ soon I'll die hearing this ...XD but the thing is you are your own partner in crime,fun, progress and specially LIFE . If you would not be councillor of your own then of this place would be taken by someone else. Who might take you through a wrong process - so called - CRISES. //Proof : a cycle have two tires to maintain it's balance //
I know the conv in the bg might not make sense but I will explain *****************************************************************
When we are used to living in a place and have so many friends as well as memories with them, would we ever want to go to other place where we are not used to living though that that place is much better or famous?
Well,for me it's true that I like to visit different countries and places. But no way I will never like leaving my hometown,my old friends (though they don't care that much).In my life I have went to different places in my state only but not outside our country.The thing is that I got a chance to go to another country.I was excited at first when I reached there.But then everything changed.I got into a new school.The people here were absolutely different from who I have met.
Finally that day came when I actually need to blend in and make new friends in this whole new place.I got ready,I am staying in front of the mirror and assessed myself and thought how the first impression will be then went to school.I should say most of the students were staring at me and I guess they understood I was new here. There was assembly and stuff (it was boring for most students).Then we went to our classes. I tried to interact ( we talk English most of the time but I didn't know their language yet) with students in my normal english which turned out to be bad,well there goes the great first impression I was thinking about.Days went by students either bullied me,not exactly bullying things but the things we do in a age of 9.The whole year passed by,I didn't make progress in making any friends.(I only wished I could skip classes which I never liked).
But one day ( the last day of the long vacation after school closed)I was sitting on my bed thinking why are they not accepting me,why they are not liking me.That's when I realised that I shouldn't have changed my attitude,my personality,my likes,my abilities to make them my friends.I forgot who I really was when I only tried to blend in.
Then the next day a new year began.I showed up in school by being myself.Gradually that year I made new friends, participated in new things, improved my english, before I was never interested in art( I wanted to but it always turned horribly)but now I love art.Now I don't want to skip classes,I just love being there,by helping teachers and teasing others with my friends.
The point is that “whenever you change yourself for others that new you doesn't look good or doesn't suit you.you always need to be yourself,never be afraid to do that.It might take others time to understand you if you are in a different society or country but by time you will improve and the people who are your classmates or maybe friends will start to like you just the way you are.Even some people will envy you (I never mind those ppl)and ofcourse the true friends you made will support us always in the decisions we make
Sorry if you think that I am ‘show offing' I don't if there is a word like that,oh I should have said showing off sry anyways back to the point.It doesn't matter how you look or what your background is.Nothing matters when you are yourself and one more thing , though I don't like leaving the old place and moving to another country,for me it was a whole new experience, which was a turning point for me.It was like I saw another world other than my small one.