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  • weirdo08 12w

    It all starts from you. There is something powerful in knowing yourself and accepting yourself. When you know yourself, you are able to set healthy boundaries, walk away from things that do not seem to be working out, choose your happiness and be willing to acknowledge and improve your gap areas. And if you know yourself, you know you are not perfect and so you also accept others in their imperfections and circumstances. Thus, avoiding conflicts and unnecessary pursuits. Self-awareness is the greatest gift you can give to yourself and others. Meditation, constructive self-talk, journaling, spending time with yourself and reflection are some of the most effective tools for building yourself. An all rounded individual cannot be just a money churning machine with knowledge of jargons/complex equations or whatever materialistic parameters that the world seems to associate success with. It requires much much more to elevate to the level where you are in touch with yourself. Otherwise, most of our life is spent seeking series of temporary escapes, ultimately leaving us confused, broken and unthoughtful..

  • weirdo08 14w

    Oh! La game de amour
    Illude of pretentious detachment
    Much to divulge..
    The pineful longings
    Innate ache of thee company
    Wholly bewitched by the bearing,
    The gripped frames, convergence of hearts
    Enigmatic feeling of completeness, nescience of flow of time..
    This ardent fondness behind the coolness
    Waiting to be said or never said..
    Fancy of a lifetime of affinity
    To tread through joys and sorrows,
    Hand-in-hand, amplifying the laughter, diminishing the woes
    Ah! A paradise of own..

  • weirdo08 15w

    Jo ye itni ghammand mei chalte hain
    Apni takaat ko kisika shoshan samjhte hain
    Nidar hokar jo jee mei aaye wo karte hain
    Harr baar yahi hota hai
    Na jaane kitne nirdosh maa baap rote hain, insaaf ki guhaar lagate hain
    Inki ghatiya soch ek masoom ki zindagi tabah kardeti hai
    Fir bhi hairaani ki baat hai ki tabahi ke kisse jada aur insaaf ke kam sunayi padhte hain
    Harr baar ye dhadhaante hain ki
    Sakhti ki jayegi
    Fir kyu ussi desh mei aaj lakhon sadak par insaaf ki ladhai ladh rahe hain
    Kaise sare aam inn darindo ko himmat miljati hai
    Kamzor kaanoon? Kisi takatvar ki panah? Ya desh chalane walon ki bhi samaan soch?
    Harr dafah masoom par keechad uchala jata hai
    Apna gunahon ka anzaam ye buzdil kisi aur par thop dete hain..
    Sharam aani chahiye aise samaaj par
    Kitna khokhla desh hai..
    Jahan ye devi ki pooja karte hain, 9 din ka tyoohar manaate hain..
    Wahin harr aurat ki zindagi inke khauf se paband hojati hai..
    Kya karenge japani rail, mann ki baat aur unn tamaam befizool ke wadon ka
    Jis desh mei suraksha aur azaadi jaise mamooli cheezein bhi itni ghair mamooli hain..

  • weirdo08 15w

    Jo ye itni ghammand mei chalte hain
    Apni takaat ko kisika shoshan samjhte hain
    Nidar hokar jo jee mei aaye wo karte hain
    Harr baar yahi tamasha hota hai
    Inki ghatiya soch ek masoom ki zindagi tabah kardeti hai
    Fir bhi hairaani ki baat hai ki tabahi ke kisse jada aur insaaf ke kam sunayi padhte hain
    Harr baar ye dhadhaate hain ki
    Sakhti ki jayegi
    Fir kyu ussi desh mei aaj lakhon sadak par insaaf ki ladhai ladh rahe hain
    Kaise sare aam inn darindo ko himmat miljati hai
    Kamzor kaanoon? Kisi takatvar ki panah? Ya desh chalane walon ki bhi virakt soch?
    Harr dafah masoom par keechad uchala jata hai
    Apna gunahon ka anzaam ye buzdil kisi aur par thop dete hain..
    Sharam aani chahiye aise samaaj par
    Kitna khokhla desh hai..
    Jahan ye devi ki pooja karte hain, 9 din ka tyoohar manaate hain..
    Wahin harr aurat ki zindagi inke khauf se paband hojati hai..
    Kya karenge japani rail, mann ki baat aur unn tamaam befizool ke wadon ka
    Jis desh mei suraksha aur azaadi jaise mamooli cheezein bhi itni ghair mamooli hain..

  • weirdo08 15w

    Hairaan karti thi usse logon ki baatein
    Kis tarah ek dusre ko fasaya karte hain
    Naa jaane kitne khel khelte hain
    Kya hua agar galat hue
    Kya hua agar dil ki baat boldi
    Aise kya faeda, ghut ghut ke jeene ka
    Ki marne waqt sirf afsoos reh jayein
    Isliye shayad iss bheedh se zada, usse khud ki rafaqat se ishq tha..

  • weirdo08 16w

    Kaafi waqt laggya ye samajhne mei ..
    Jo humare liye 700 crore mei 1 hain
    hum unke liye mehaz 1 shaam ka shauq hain..
    Khair aaj naa jaane kaise dil ka zor kam hua, aur akal thikane aagayi..
    Maano jaise azaadi milgyi iss bewajah ki kashmakash se..
    Ab zara bhi apna waqt zaya nai karenge
    Iss khayal mei ki wo kabhi toh humari aur rukh karenge
    jisse humari kadar hi naa ho
    Uski humei zaroorat nahi..
    aaj dil kamyaab hai..
    Akhir riha hua khayalon ki duniya se..
    Haan filhal toota hua sa mehsoos hota hai magar shukrguzar hai iss tazurbe ke..
    Pyaar aur muamale barbaar ke ho toh acha hota hai
    Warna kadar karne wale ka sirf nuksaan h hota hai..

  • weirdo08 18w

    Lessons learnt in past 1 month

    1. Sometimes losing hope is freedom! ABSOLUTE FREEDOM. Especially, when it demands attachment/expression/response from someone other than you.

    2. Seeing thing as they are and not kill yourself with 'maybe' / 'someday' / 'could be'

    3. Silence is a much better option when all you have is annoyance, hurt and disappointment to express

    4. Value thyself. Say NO without hesitation and define your own conditions. The right people will come along and somehow find these conditions to be perfect and aligned with theirs.

    5. Emotionally healthy person looks for genuine relationships and creates one. Emotionally unhealthy person will consume you in their own confusion and despondency. Strive to become emotionally healthy first before putting yourself out there in the dating world.

    6. Whatever did not work out for you, it was not yours to begin with. And even if it is, do not beat yourself about it. Keep living and let life flow.

    7. You are not in control of externalities but totally in control of your being. Be super hopeful of the opportunities you can create for yourself and things you can give to your self. Be not hopeful (AT ALL) of what others can give you and should think/behave as you.

    8. Finally, it is all within you. Change your mindset and change your life. Choice is yours to be stuck in the same situation or move on and create a thriving life for yourself. Every experience is 100% created by you. You choose to be sad. You choose to be happy

    ©weirdo08

  • weirdo08 23w

    Nothing more blissful and liberating than the moment when you realize that you were kept away from someone/situation because they were not deserving of you, your intentions and what you had to offer to them. You feel protected. And to make you realize, universe shakes you up in the most horrific and heartbreaking ways. And it keeps doing that until you learn your lesson and take an action. The moment you decide to act, the pain and desperation go away. There is nothing more magical, reassuring and satisfying than that! And yet we forget it each time. All we need is immense self-love, courage, irrational belief in our power to turn around our life, and most importantly train our brain to look for opportunities in adversity. Proudly walk away from anything/anyone which do not lead you anywhere but sadness, self-loath and hopelessness. It is all within us. That's the essence of Buddhism too - Nam Myoho Renge Kyo - A conviction that we have within us at every moment the ability to overcome any problem or challenge that we may encounter in life; the ability to transform any suffering. Human lives possess this power because they are inseparable from the fundamental law that underlies the workings of all life and the universe.
    It is so profound and real!

  • weirdo08 28w

    The light within you

    Unwillingly, frustratingly,
    Time to time,
    You will be caught in darkness on this journey of life,
    Accompanied with great despair, melancholy and self doubt
    That's the moment when you ought to remember the power within you,
    To get up and take charge,
    And bloom like a big bright flower amidst the darkness around you,
    To realize, as you thinketh, so you are
    And for a brighter and radiant thee, you have go to let the light shine within you! ❤️

  • weirdo08 30w

    The pain of heart

    The lump in the throat
    The Clinched fists, the burnt face
    The outpouring eyes,
    The Jittery being,
    Brimming with sentiments,
    Without a word on mouth
    The struggle to accept the reality,
    The lost willingness to change it,
    Gripped in impressions of self-doubt,
    Hurling abuses to destiny,
    Questioning the truthiness of the concept of love
    Drowning in the drain of despair and unfulfillment
    Fear, so real,
    Of losing that someone
    With amplified madness
    To have the courage and believe
    They were yours, for they were never.
    The urge to feel normal, assuaging incessantly
    All is well, will be well
    But, why it hurts so much?
    Probably, the fantasies and dreams you had,
    All in your head,
    The idea of the person, not the person
    Pains your heart this much
    No, but why the fantasies?
    One such evening, they made you believe maybe they adore you too
    Joyous and ever so much in love
    You daydream and weave thy happily ever after
    Knowing little that
    The other did not love, was never in love
    Just to feel good and satisfied,
    Was one such evening
    Realization leaves you stupid and lost,
    That evening, totally perfect, felt so right
    The conversation, the walk, the embrace
    All a mock-up, it was
    So many questions in the head
    Little can you do to reason the wrong or right
    They say, are you being clingy or weak
    But the heart cries in pain
    Where are the morals and the justice
    All in vain
    They'd be happily going on,
    You'll too, if not today but somebody,
    Let go,
    Accept the apologies, never given
    Push to love yourself more
    Believe that you are worthy of love
    Of the most precious and kind
    Which will serve you right
    Take this a lesson learnt, move on
    For if he could not be true to you and the person he loves
    How could he be true ever.
    Leave the fantasies behind
    Reality is far from it!