It's funny how the society Makes you do What you never wanna do. When you want to stand up straight, They put you down a million times. When you want to be comfortable, In your loose t-shirt and a messed up bun. They say you look shabby, When you are comfortable being fat, (Hey ,we can like being fluffy,you know) They say you have to lose weight. When you get thin, They say you look hollow. When you want to be an artist, They want you to be an engineer. When you talk, you are named arrogant. When you don't, you become rude.
And somehow after all these repeated Droning, you end up becoming Something you are not. And if we don't resist it, We become twisted beings Who will do the same to others. The social stigma never ends. Raise a barrier against them , So that you don't drown In the flood. Save yourself first. Sometimes it's good being selfish.
Oh, I don't need to say that. The heading already did the task. So, another feminist post on its way and as I'm writing this I feel I need to ask you to stay till the end and read it and not just read it but understand it too.
So, first of all, I'd like all the boys wishing their mothers and sisters (a statutory addition to the list is your girlfriend) warmly from my side saying "HEY THERE SLUT". The first thought that would climb up your mind is how cheap of a guy I am saying so and then it immediately strikes that this is a feminist post so I'll turn the tables. No, I'm asking genuinely to all the boys and even the girls. Girls could greet themselves too.
Definitely where a guy who ditched his girlfriend calls her a slut you too can do it for no apparent reason. Just put in your efforts, lace-up your words and put up this gift box in front of your loved ones.
What? You're still waiting here?
Come on, drop in a message or say it face to face as it suits you and not behind her back. Get this straight you got no option but to say those three magical words to someone. It's your choice whether to choose an innocent woman or to go for a tough-looking handsome guy who has got some acknowledgement in some sort of political, financial or other materialistic backgrounds or maybe because he's your friend, a good friend or a BRO (the so-called Bhai).
A guy? Where did a guy come from?
Yes, a guy. A guy who ditched his so-called girlfriend calling her a slut and we were listening with our mouths shut or maybe laughing. A guy who photoshopped and uploaded a few pictures of a girl saying "let me take my revenge for the rejection by that slut." A guy who tried to molest a girl naming her a slut because she was comfortable talking with her male friends. A guy who raped a prostitute saying what difference would it make to the sluty girl and even if she's paid for it or not, she will enjoy this anyway. A father who slapped his daughter with those humiliating words for loving a guy. A brother who dragged his sister home yelling about the shame she brought to the family by roaming around with a guy. A husband who got a license to say so because he knows how women are.
Then let me ask them how do they know?
If sleeping with many girls made you realise this then my boy you're a slut and not the girl. Your thinking makes you a slut.
So, make a choice as you gotta say those three magical words anyway. The guy or your loved ones.
Pick the right person.
and if you realise this then next time when you see someone calling a girl a slut, either join them, give a high five and laugh ferociously or just reply calmly "HEY THERE SLUT"