Life often puts us in situations where we are compelled to loose everything we have realizing the fact that life's being so cruel to us. But once you think over it and realize that whatever happened was meant to be happened and whatever happened, happened for something good in your life. So keep fighting and keep being brave for that'll always help you to live a life alive.
Separation doesn't always produce bitterness between the two got separated. At times, the best way to avoid a unhealthy, dysfunctional relationship is going for willing separation. Love never dies and sometime hate replaces it. But what's possible is to end a relationship without loosing respect for one another.